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Tips to Help You Write an Obituary
The death of a family member or friend often comes with many unexpected responsibilities, and few are as daunting as writing an obituary. Summarizing a person’s entire life in a few short sentences is hard for even the best writers, and it’s made all the more difficult by the need to include important about the funeral and other concerns. Here are some tips to make writing an obituary a bit more manageable.
Start With the Basic Facts.
The first sentence or two of the obituary should contain the most relevant facts. Begin with the name and age of the deceased, and include where he or she lived and when that person died. Doing so provides the reader with the information they need most up front, similar to a headline or lede for news article. You don’t have to include the cause of death, especially if you feel uncomfortable about doing so. That information isn’t always relevant to anyone outside the family, and interested parties can always learn more at the funeral itself..
List family members.
The next thing to do is list the family of the deceased. List parents, spouse, children, children’s spouses and siblings by name. Note the spouses of children in parentheses between the child’s first and last name (for example: John (Sally) Thompson). After you name members of the generations before and after the deceased, note the number of grandchildren, great-grandchildren and (if desired) nieces and nephews. If any family members died before your loved one, list them afterward as having preceded him or her in death.
Tell your loved one’s story.
The next part of the obituary is your loved one’s biographical sketch. You want to make it both personal and concise. Get as much information into this part of the obituary as you can, but write it in as few words as possible. Share what he or she did for a living as well as hobbies and interests. Mention achievements as well as any other information that gives readers an idea of what your loved one was like. But be aware: if you’re putting the obituary in a newspaper, most papers charge by the word or line, so keep the cost in mind when you’re writing.
Give details of the memorial service.
Next, you’ll want to provide details about your loved one’s funeral or memorial service. Include the date and time, and if the event is public, note the location (including the address) as well. You may also want to list the officiants of the service. Be sure to inform readers of any visitation hours and/or interment or graveside services after the funeral. If the service takes place at a church or any location other than a funeral home, you should also acknowledge the funeral home that is helping with the funeral. Here’s where you will also want to include information on the charities or organizations that people can donate to in lieu of flowers.
Proofread and double check for accuracy.
Once you’ve gathered all the information and written everything out, the most important thing to do is proofread and make sure everything you’ve written is accurate. There’s nothing worse than submitting an obituary only to discover mistakes after it’s too late to change it. Check for spelling and grammatical errors, and make sure you’ve used proper punctuation. Then, you should go through and double check to make sure that all the information in the obituary is accurate, including any dates and the spelling of all names. As soon as you’re satisfied with the writing of the obituary and the information in it, you can send it in.
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We hope our funeral speech examples will inspire you to write a heartfelt eulogy to honour your loved one.
Delivering a funeral speech can be a daunting task. Quite apart from the challenge of speaking in front of people while in a highly charged emotional state, the task of actually writing the funeral speech can be overwhelming.
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Guidelines for Writing Funeral Speeches:
First of all, we have put together the following simple guidelines to help you to think of things to say:
- Speak from the heart and say how you feel about the person
- Describe the person's qualities
- Talk about their career, jobs, hobbies and passions
- Talk about their relationships with family, friends and colleagues
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- Perhaps mention some people who will be at the funeral
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- Thank people for coming to the funeral and for their support
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How to Write a Eulogy for a Friend Who Died Suddenly
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You may find it challenging to complete even the simplest task following the death of a good friend. Grief can turn the mind to mush, and unexpected grief can often be paralyzing. So if you were asked to write a eulogy for a friend, we're here to help you craft the speech that honors their life.
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- How to Write a Eulogy for a Friend
Short Eulogy Examples for a Friend Who Died Suddenly
Whether you were asked to write the eulogy or you volunteered, the writing process may help you more than you would have ever imagined. By writing a eulogy for a friend, you will have a chance to reflect on a life well-lived and honor the memory of your loved one.
This guide will help you write a eulogy for a friend. If you need help with some of the other tasks associated with death, as well as with grief and complicated family dynamics, our post-loss checklist can help.
How to Write Your Eulogy for a Friend
You can think of a eulogy as a way to say goodbye to a loved one. In the case of a friend who died suddenly, this is a way to express your final thoughts and bring closure to yourself and your loved ones. Usually, funerals and memorial services include the eulogy, but you can also write one privately.
Finding the right words to say might feel intimidating, especially right after the passing of a loved one. Here are some tips for writing a eulogy for a friend who died suddenly.
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1. Understand the purpose of eulogies
First, it’s helpful to understand the real purpose of eulogies. Yes, your eulogy is about the deceased, but it’s for the audience. Eulogies are a way to bring peace to loved ones and family members. They evoke that person’s positive qualities and experiences, usually during the memorial service.
While eulogies can be emotional, they don’t have to be mournful. Think about what your audience would like to hear about this person. In the case of sudden death, most people want to hear something uplifting. They want to hear good things about the person. It would be best to be honest but selective about what you include.
2. Share a memory
A lot of times, it’s challenging to know how to sum up a person in a single eulogy. People are well-rounded and complex. They aren’t merely a list of characteristics on a page.
One simple way to present a complete picture of your friend is to use the eulogy as an opportunity to share a memory. You might tell a funny story or one where they helped you out of a tricky situation. Often, it’s these real-life experiences that highlight who we are. A humorous, light moment is also a welcome reprieve for mournful guests.
3. Use a prompt
When you’re overcome with grief, it might feel impossible to put pen to paper. In this case, it’s worth using a eulogy prompt to get the words flowing. Here are some to get you started:
- Who will be in the audience?
- How would your friend like to be remembered?
- What made your friend special?
- Who was closest to your friend?
- What are your friend’s most significant accomplishments?
- When was your friend happiest?
While these are only jumping-off points, the prompts above will help you put your eulogy into perspective. This is an opportunity to say something meaningful about your friend. If you need more help, read our guide on how to start a eulogy .
4. Include quotes
It’s not always possible to find the right words to say. It’s okay if you need a bit of help. Using quotes adds another layer of depth to your work. Over the years, creative minds, including authors, musicians, leaders, and poets, have inspired the world with their words. Research funeral quotes for a eulogy for some inspiration.
Aside from quotes specifically for funerals, you might also choose quotes that meant something to your friend. For example, including excerpts from their favorite book, movie, or song is a touching way to honor their interests.
5. Incorporate a poem
Consider looking for a poem to help you share ideas that you find challenging to put into words. You can use a classic funeral poem that your audience may be familiar with or another verse that beautifully captures the characteristics of your deceased friend.
If you don’t know any poems or can’t find any that speak to you, consider using song lyrics. Reading a verse of your friend’s favorite song could provide a particularly poignant moment during the service.
6. Find your own support
Last but not least, don’t forget to find your own support. Writing a eulogy is hard. Writing a eulogy for the sudden death of a friend is even more challenging.
Make sure you have support for yourself during this difficult time. Whether that means enlisting the help of other friends, having someone else read your eulogy, or talking with someone you love, don’t forget to take care of yourself.
While writing a eulogy, you’ll undoubtedly be forced to confront many lingering feelings around your friend’s life and death. You don’t have to face them alone.
Do you have writer’s block? Here’s some additional guidance on how to write an obituary .
Another way to overcome writer’s block when writing a friend’s obituary is to read examples.
Let’s look at some examples of short eulogies written for a friend who died suddenly. You can also find real-life examples by reading online memorials or searching social media. Don’t be afraid to ask for help with writing your friend’s eulogy.
Here are some short examples of eulogies for a friend who died suddenly:
Though I am still reeling from the sudden death of my dear friend, Barb, I am humbled and touched by her time here with us. For those of you who don’t know me, I am Barb’s childhood friend, Susan. We’ve been friends since the first day of middle school. I’ll never forget how she sat across from me at lunch. I was so worried I’d be sitting alone, but she was quick to welcome me into her friend group. As we all know, Barb was a kind and caring friend. She never turned down the chance to meet new people, travel somewhere new, or be there when we needed her. Her positivity was an inspiration for everyone she met. She was a friend to many, and we will all miss her every day. Thank you for everything, Barb.
Thank you to everyone who is here with me today to celebrate Kevin’s life. I’ve only known Kevin for the past five years, but I can already see how he’s significantly impacted everyone during his time as a teacher at our school. As his coworker and friend, I was lucky to see his work with students every day. So many students looked up to him and saw him as a father figure. He was patient, intelligent, and the funniest guy I knew. Kevin spoke highly of his own role models – his dad, John, and his uncle, Bill. If they’re anything like him — and I know they are — then it’s no wonder he grew into one of the greatest friends I’ve ever had. Kevin taught me the importance of always looking for the best in people, and I’ll always remember that.
Nancy and I have been best friends for as long as I can remember. She was there through school, college, and all of the years after. It didn’t matter how long we’d been apart; we would always pick up right where we left off anytime we were together. Nancy was the kind of friend that had my back no matter what. I remember getting stranded when my car broke down one night after work while in college together. Nancy picked up the phone immediately and was the first one there. That was the kind of compassionate person she was. Even though Nancy’s death was sudden, her impact cannot be contained in her short lifetime. Her memory will live on with me, her family, and her daughter. I know she’d be smiling if she was here with us today. I am so grateful to have known her.
Writing a Eulogy for a Friend FAQs
Here are the answers to common questions about writing a eulogy. Please keep in mind that every situation is unique. If you would like specific advice, consider participating in the Cake Forum .
How long should a eulogy for a friend be?
A eulogy for a friend should be between five to 10 minutes long. However, if you are the only speaker at the event, you might feel inclined to speak longer.
Please understand that a eulogy differs from “sharing your thoughts” at a funeral service. If the officiant asks the audience to say a few words during the service, limit your response to one to two minutes.
How should you start a eulogy for a friend?
The best way to start a eulogy for a friend is by introducing yourself and telling those in the audience how you knew the deceased.
Then, you may want to address the family members and offer condolences – or thank them for allowing you to share your memories of your friend.
Should you give a eulogy at a friend’s funeral?
If asked by the family, you should give a eulogy at a friend’s funeral. Speaking at a person’s funeral is a very loving act.
Please realize that you aren’t the only person uncomfortable with public speaking. Try not to use your discomfort as an excuse not to share your thoughts about your friend who has passed.
What are some other ways to honor a friend who has passed away?
One of the best ways to honor a friend who has passed away is to keep their memory alive. Tell stories, share photos, and make a record of your favorite moments with the deceased.
Also, consider participating in activities your friend enjoyed to honor their memory. Some people donate to a favorite charity of the deceased or spend time volunteering for a favorite non-profit.
You can also keep a cherished possession or small token nearby to remind you of your deceased friend. Even something as common as a keychain can become a treasured item if it reminds you of good times in the past.
Find Peace and Say Farewell With Your Eulogy
Eulogies offer us another glimpse of our loved ones. They’re a way to bring their presence into the funeral or memorial service through our words and memories. Writing a eulogy for a friend who died suddenly is a chance to say your final farewell.
Even if you keep the eulogy private, this is an opportunity to reflect on your time together. Your loved one’s life was worthwhile; you can honor your friendship through words. For more help with the passing of a friend, please read our guide on how to offer condolences .
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How do you begin to write a eulogy?
And how is it possible to say everything you want to about a person in a few, very brief, minutes?
Both those questions are natural responses to having a eulogy to write.
Grief, together with the desire to honor your loved-one the best way you can, and the pressure of a tight timeframe, can make it feel like an almost insurmountable challenge.
That's why reading what others have written in similar circumstances helps a great deal.
What's on this page:
Access to 70+ eulogy examples, the whys and wherefores of the collection; its background, a submission form to use if you want to contribute a eulogy and links to other useful pages on my site.
- I want to browse and read the example eulogies in the order they have been received . (The most recent is at the top of the list.)
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- I want to read specific types of eulogies : eulogies for mothers, fathers, friends...
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I am fortunate to be able to make available to you a large, and growing, collection of funeral speech examples.
They've been written by people from all over the world who are just like you and me. They too have family and friends whom they care for deeply.
Look and you'll find examples of eulogies for mothers, fathers, grandparents, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, mentors, colleagues..., in short: loved ones.
They have been shared by those who wrote them to help people like yourself. Because they've been where you are now with a funeral speech to prepare, and they know how it feels to be searching for inspiration, trying to find a starting place.
Some of the speeches are short. Some of them are funny. All of them are heartfelt, and they appear in the order I received them.
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I've grouped all the speeches I've received through this page according to their type on a new page here: sample eulogies . Whenever a eulogy is submitted, I add its link to the category it belongs to.
The story behind this collection of eulogies
It began with two funeral speeches I had written. Almost as soon as I put them online, they attracted an enormous number of visitors.
It was then I realized the need for more.
I also knew my eulogy examples would not answer everybody's needs. The one for my sister was different in approach. The one for my friend and next-door neighbor was not what a grieving person with a funeral speech to write for a close family member really wanted to see.
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To be really useful there needed to be a wider variety of funeral speeches. We needed eulogies for mothers, fathers, sons, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, colleagues, friends...
And we needed them to reflect the diverse countries and faiths of the people visiting the site.
I decided to ask for more. Lo and behold, they began to arrive through my eulogy submission form below.
Help to make writing a eulogy easier.
After you've read a few eulogy examples and you want help to prepare your own speech you'll find it here: how to write a eulogy .
The article has step-by-step instructions, examples, a very useful free 15-page printable eulogy planning template to download , as well as comprehensive answers for 13 FAQs about eulogies :
- how do you start a eulogy ?
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- do you read a eulogy or memorize it?
- how do you stop from crying when you give a eulogy ?
Why do people share a deeply personal speech?
The people sending their eulogies to me to publish fully appreciate that writing a funeral speech under pressure can be a difficult, sad and lonely task. They know from experience having examples to read can lessen that burden and provide a starting place.
Theirs is a kind and generous act, one that's been repeated over 70 times already.
Wonderfully, some of the people who've come searching for eulogy examples to help them write, have returned to share what they've written.
(Read Craig's comment below his eulogy for his Grandmother, Bertha or Byrona's below her eulogy for her Dad .
Both were helped by funeral speeches they found here and wanted what they had written to assist others in the same way.)
So, if you've written a eulogy...
Would you consider sharing it.
It would help others enormously.
Every day people look for suggestions on how to a write eulogy or for eulogy examples . I know because I see it reflected in my website visitor statistics.
I also know because of the comments people leave under speeches. They are so very grateful to have found a eulogy expressing how they feel. For instance, the comments on Eulogy for my Son , on Eulogy for my Grandmother - Bertha , or Sharon Catley's poem for her Mother, Journey's End .
You know how it generally is with a speech of this sort. Typically, there is very little time to prepare, and you want to get it right.
Reading what others have done helps in the best possible way.
These eulogies inspire and give people the courage to do what they need to do.
Despite our differences what we all have in common is the desire to speak about our loved ones the very best way we can.
The more examples we have, the more likely a person is going to find a speech that resonates and meets their needs.
You too could help by submitting the eulogy you've written. It's really simple to do.
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Heartfelt Eulogy Examples for a Cherished Friend: Honor Their Memory Today
Losing a dear friend is a heartbreaking experience, and the responsibility of honoring their memory through a touching eulogy can feel overwhelming. A friend’s eulogy is more than just a speech; it’s an opportunity to share fond memories, celebrate their life, and offer comfort to their loved ones during a difficult time. With so much emotion involved, finding the right words and striking the right balance between grief and celebration can be challenging.
In this blog post, we aim to provide guidance, inspiration, and heartfelt eulogy examples that will help you craft a beautiful tribute to your beloved friend. Our goal is to support you through the emotional journey of writing and delivering a eulogy that truly honors your friend’s life and the special bond you shared. By following our tips and drawing from our carefully selected examples, you’ll be able to create a moving and memorable eulogy that will resonate with everyone in attendance at your friend’s funeral. So, let’s begin this journey together and pay homage to the precious friend who left an indelible mark on your heart and the hearts of others.
Reflecting on your friendship and shared experiences
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When faced with the sudden death of a beloved friend, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed with emotions. As you prepare to write a touching eulogy for your precious friend, it’s important to take the time to reflect on your friendship and shared experiences. To create a heartfelt tribute that will resonate with your audience and honor your friend’s life, consider the following steps:
Begin by gathering your thoughts and focusing on the fond memories you shared with your friend. Think about the moments that made you laugh, the times when your friend was your moral compass, and the experiences that brought you closer together. Jot down a few memories or funny stories that capture the essence of your caring friend.
As you’re writing the eulogy, remember that you are speaking to a group of loved ones who are also grieving the loss of your friend. Consider their feelings and emotional needs as you craft your words. Be empathetic and understanding, offering comfort and support through your stories and reflections.
Don’t be afraid to seek inspiration from various sources like eulogy examples, tributes written for other friends, or even quotes from your friend’s favorite book. These sources can help you find the right words to express your feelings and paint a vivid picture of your friend’s life.
III. Crafting the Perfect Eulogy: Essential Components
To create a touching eulogy that honors your beloved friend’s life and offers comfort to their loved ones, consider incorporating the following essential components:
- Start by sharing a personal anecdote or quote that captures the essence of your friend. This will immediately engage the audience and set the tone for the rest of the eulogy.
Example: “I’ll never forget the first day I met [friend’s name]. Their infectious laugh and warm smile instantly drew me in, and I knew we were destined to become lifelong friends.”
- Share meaningful stories, fond memories, and funny moments that highlight your friend’s character traits, values, and accomplishments. Paint a vivid picture of their life and the impact they had on those around them.
Example: “One of my favorite memories of [friend’s name] was when they selflessly spent an entire night helping me prepare for a big presentation. That’s just the kind of caring friend they were – always putting others first and offering support whenever needed.”
- Express gratitude for the precious friendship you shared and provide words of solace and encouragement to the audience. Let them know that, while your friend may be gone, their memory will live on forever in the hearts of those who loved them.
Example: “As we gather here today to celebrate the life of our dear friend, let us remember the laughter, love, and joy they brought into our lives. May their memory continue to inspire and uplift us as we navigate this world without them. Together, we can honor their legacy and cherish the moments we shared.”
By following these guidelines and infusing your eulogy with heartfelt emotion, you will create a lasting tribute that honors your friend’s life, comforts their loved ones, and celebrates the profound impact they had on all who knew them.
IV. Tips for Writing a Persuasive and Empathetic Eulogy
To craft a heartfelt and memorable eulogy for your dear friend, it’s essential to incorporate storytelling elements, descriptive language, and an empathetic tone. Here are some tips to help you create a persuasive and empathetic eulogy that will resonate with your audience:
Engaging stories and vivid descriptions can bring your friend’s life and memories to the forefront, allowing the audience to feel closer to them. Use specific examples and anecdotes to illustrate your friend’s character, values, and accomplishments. Paint a picture of their life by describing moments that will stay with the audience long after the funeral.
Example: “I remember the night we stayed up late talking about our dreams and aspirations. As we gazed at the stars, [friend’s name] shared their passion for helping others and making a difference in the world.”
A touching eulogy should evoke a range of emotions, from sorrow to joy. Be honest and genuine in expressing your feelings, but also strive to balance the emotional content to prevent overwhelming your audience. Share fond memories, funny stories, and moments of vulnerability to create a well-rounded tribute that truly honors your friend.
Example: “There were times when [friend’s name] struggled with self-doubt, but they always managed to persevere, inspiring us all with their resilience and unwavering determination.”
Consider the emotional needs of your audience and tailor your message accordingly. Offer words of comfort, express gratitude for your friendship, and provide encouragement to those who mourn your friend’s sudden death. By connecting with your audience on an emotional level, you can create a lasting impact and offer solace during a difficult time.
Example: “As we gather here today to say our goodbyes, let us remember the love and laughter [friend’s name] brought into our lives. We may have lost a beloved friend, but their memory will live on in our hearts forever.”
By following these tips and using a persuasive, empathetic approach, you can create a eulogy that not only honors your friend’s life but also provides comfort and healing to those who grieve their loss.
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V. Delivering Your Eulogy with Confidence and Compassion
Delivering a eulogy for your dear friend is an emotional and challenging experience. To ensure that your speech resonates with the audience and honors your friend’s life, follow these tips for presenting your eulogy with confidence and compassion.
Before the friend’s funeral, take the time to practice your eulogy several times. This will help you become familiar with the flow of your speech and identify any areas where you may need to pause or take a deep breath to manage your emotions. Remember that it’s natural to feel emotional while speaking about your precious friend, but practicing can help you maintain composure during the eulogy.
As you deliver your eulogy, make eye contact with the loved ones in attendance and speak from the heart. Sharing fond memories and funny stories will help create a supportive atmosphere, allowing everyone to mourn and celebrate your friend’s life together. Engage with your audience by acknowledging their grief and offering words of comfort and hope.
Example: “We have all lost a dear friend, but let us remember the laughter, love, and joy they brought into our lives. Together, we can honor their memory and cherish the moments we shared.”
Despite thorough preparation, you may encounter unexpected emotions or situations during the eulogy. Be prepared to adapt your speech as needed, whether it’s taking a moment to collect yourself or adjusting your words to address the audience’s reactions. Remain compassionate and empathetic, focusing on honoring your friend and providing support to those who mourn their sudden death.
In conclusion, delivering a touching eulogy for your dear friend requires preparation, empathy, and the ability to adapt to unforeseen circumstances. By practicing your speech, engaging with the audience, and managing your emotions, you can create a heartfelt tribute that honors your friend’s life and offers solace to their loved ones during this difficult time.
Example 1: Eulogy for a best friend who was like family
Today, we gather to pay tribute to a man who was more than just a name to us. George was a beacon of hope, a pillar of strength, a companion in joy and sorrow, and above all, he was family. His loss has created a void in our hearts that can’t be filled, but his legacy lives on in the memories we shared, and the lessons we learned from him.
George had a remarkable life, filled with extraordinary moments and simple joys. He was a man of humble beginnings, raised in a small town, who loved the smell of fresh-cut grass and the sound of rain on a tin roof. From a young age, he had an unquenchable thirst for knowledge, a passion that led him to become a brilliant scientist. But his accomplishments in academia never overshadowed the most important aspect of his life – his love for people.
He had the kind of humor that could light up a room, the kind of smile that made you feel like everything was going to be alright. He was a storyteller, a weaver of tales. We would often sit on his porch, hanging on to his every word as he spoke of his scientific discoveries, his travel adventures, and his love for nature. But his favorite story to tell was always about the day he met the love of his life, our dear Susan. His eyes would light up as he painted a picture of a young, shy woman who stole his heart with her radiant smile and kind soul.
George was not just a friend, but a mentor to many of us. He taught us about resilience in the face of adversity, about the importance of following our passions, and about the beauty of life’s simple pleasures. He had a special ability to make every person feel seen, heard, and valued. He could turn an ordinary day into an extraordinary one with his infectious laughter, his insightful conversations, and his boundless generosity.
He was a man of integrity, whose actions spoke louder than words. George was there for us in our darkest hours, and he was there to celebrate our biggest victories. He loved deeply, and he was deeply loved in return. He valued friendship and family above all else, and treated every person he met with kindness and respect.
George was also a great lover of nature. He found solace in the rustle of leaves, the chirping of birds, the ripple of a clear, mountain stream. His appreciation for the environment taught us to value our planet, to take care of it, and to find beauty in its every corner.
His loss has left an emptiness in our hearts, but in this sorrow, we find comfort in the memories we shared, the laughter, the tears, the quiet moments, the loud celebrations. His spirit lives on in each of us, in the lessons he taught us, in the love he shared.
George’s life was a testament to the power of love, friendship, and kindness. As we remember him today, let us not focus on the loss, but on the life he lived, the love he shared, and the legacy he leaves behind. Let us honor him by living our lives with the same kindness, passion, and love that he showed us every day.
In the end, George was not just a friend, not just a mentor, not just a scientist. He was family. He was a part of us, and he always will be. As we say our final goodbyes today, let’s remember George for who he was – a beacon of light, a pillar of strength, and above all, a man who loved with all his heart.
Rest in peace, dear George. You will forever be missed, but your spirit will forever live on in our hearts.
Example 2: Eulogy for a dear friend who inspired others
Ladies and Gentlemen,
Today, we gather to celebrate the extraordinary life of a woman who was much more than just a friend; she was an inspiration, a mentor, a beacon of unwavering strength and joy, a woman named Mary. Her absence leaves an unfillable void in our lives, but her radiant spirit continues to shine brightly in our hearts, guiding us, just as she always has.
Mary was a woman of exceptional courage and tenacity, a woman whose life story was as inspiring as her soul. Born in a quaint little town by the sea, she was a girl of humble beginnings. Her love for the vast ocean and wide-open skies was only surpassed by her love for people. This love led her on a journey to become a respected healthcare professional, helping countless people with her kind heart and skilled hands.
She possessed a spirit that was as vibrant as a summer’s day, and as comforting as a gentle spring rain. Her laughter was infectious, her compassion endless, and her wisdom profound. Mary was a storyteller, her life’s lessons woven into every tale. She found joy in the simplest things, like the melody of the morning birds, the beauty of a sunset, or the joyous laughter of a child.
Mary had a unique ability to connect with people on a level that transcended the ordinary. She listened with her heart, understood with her soul, and spoke words that had the power to heal, inspire, and uplift. She was a friend who stood by us in times of sorrow, celebrated with us in times of joy, and encouraged us when we doubted ourselves.
Mary was the kind of woman who would go out of her way to help others, even when she herself was in need. She taught us that the real measure of success is not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life. She found her greatest joy in the happiness of those she loved, and her greatest accomplishment in their success.
She was a lover of art, a patron of music, and a devotee of literature. Her home was filled with the melodies of classical music, the colors of abstract paintings, and the wisdom of countless books. Through her, we learned to appreciate the beauty of a well-composed symphony, the depth of a thought-provoking painting, and the power of a well-written verse.
As we stand here today, let us not dwell on the sorrow of her departure, but let us celebrate her life, her love, and her spirit. Let us remember her not just as a friend, but as an inspiration, a guiding light. Let us carry her memory in our hearts, live her teachings in our actions, and spread her love in our lives.
Mary was not just a friend; she was a force of nature that changed the world around her. She was a woman who believed in the power of love and kindness, and who lived her life inspiring others to believe the same. As we bid her farewell today, let’s remember her for who she truly was – an extraordinary woman, an inspiring friend, and a beacon of light that will continue to shine brightly in our hearts.
Mary, you were a blessing in our lives, a friend like no other. Your spirit will live on in our memories, in our stories, and in the love that you so generously shared with us. As we say goodbye, know that your legacy of love, strength, and inspiration will continue to guide us. Rest in peace, dear Mary. You will be missed, but never forgotten.
Example 3: Eulogy for a cherished friend who left a lasting impact
Today, we gather to remember a soul so vibrant and a spirit so inspiring, that she left an indelible mark on all of our lives. Martha was more than a friend to us. She was a confidante, a mentor, and a companion in both our moments of joy and sorrow. The void left by her absence is profound, yet her essence continues to live on in our hearts and memories.
Martha was a woman of extraordinary character. Born in the heartland of our country, she had an innate connection to the earth and its beauty. This connection led her to become a landscape artist, painting scenes so breathtakingly that they could whisk you away to the places she loved so much. Her paintings weren’t just mere depictions of landscapes, they were imbued with her spirit, her love for life, and her appreciation for the world around us.
Martha had an infectious zest for life, a passion that permeated every aspect of her existence. Her laugh was contagious, her smile, radiant. She had a way of transforming ordinary moments into extraordinary memories. She found joy in the simplest of things, like the rustle of leaves on a windy day or the aroma of fresh coffee on a quiet morning. Through her, we learned to appreciate the beauty in everyday life.
Her wisdom was a guiding light in our lives, her words, a source of comfort. She had a unique ability to make sense of the world, to find meaning in the mundane, and to see the silver lining in every cloud. She was our rock in turbulent times, our cheerleader in times of victory, and our source of inspiration when we felt lost.
Martha had a heart that was as vast as the landscapes she painted. She loved unconditionally, forgave easily, and embraced everyone with open arms. She was the kind of friend who would drop everything to be by your side when you needed her, who would lend a listening ear without judgment, who would offer a shoulder to cry on without hesitation.
In her paintings, she found solace; in her garden, she found peace. She had a magical touch that could make flowers bloom and plants thrive. She believed that every seed planted with love would grow into something beautiful. Her garden was a reflection of her – vibrant, beautiful, full of life.
As we remember Martha today, let’s not dwell on the sadness of her departure but rather on the joy she brought into our lives. Let us remember her infectious laugh, her radiant smile, her wise words, and her warm hugs. Let us honor her memory by living our lives with the same passion, the same kindness, and the same love that she showed us every day.
Martha, you were a rare gem in this world, a friend that one is lucky to have once in a lifetime. You will always be a part of us, your spirit living on in the landscapes you’ve painted, the gardens you’ve nurtured, and the hearts you’ve touched.
As we bid you farewell, dear Martha, know that your life was a masterpiece, a beautiful painting filled with love, joy, and inspiration. Your legacy will continue to inspire us, to guide us, to remind us of the wonderful person you were. Rest in peace, dear friend. You will be missed, but your spirit will continue to live on in our hearts.
Example 4: Eulogy for a close friend who faced adversity with courage
We gather here today to honor the life of a man who was not only a close friend, but a true embodiment of strength, courage, and resilience. Jack was more than a friend to us; he was our rock, our guiding light, our brother in arms. Though his absence leaves a deep void in our hearts, his unwavering spirit remains a constant source of inspiration.
Jack’s life was a testament to the power of determination and the triumph of the human spirit. Born with a congenital condition that challenged his physical abilities, he never let it define him or limit his dreams. Instead, he chose to rise above it, to prove that adversity could be conquered through perseverance and an indomitable spirit.
He was a fighter, a warrior, who faced every challenge with fierce determination and a heart full of hope. Jack had the ability to turn obstacles into stepping stones, and setbacks into opportunities. His courage was contagious, his optimism, a beacon of light in even the darkest of times. Through his struggles, he taught us the true meaning of resilience, of never giving up, of living life to the fullest, despite the odds.
Jack was an accomplished writer, using his gift with words to touch the hearts and minds of countless readers. His stories were a reflection of his life – full of hope, courage, and the unwavering belief in the power of the human spirit to overcome adversity. He wrote with a passion that was as boundless as his imagination, creating worlds that inspired us, moved us, and reminded us of the beauty of life.
His laughter was infectious, his smile, radiant. Jack had an uncanny ability to find joy in the smallest of things, to appreciate the beauty in the world around him, and to share that joy with everyone he met. He loved fiercely, forgave easily, and embraced life with open arms.
Jack was a true friend, one who stood by us in times of hardship and celebrated our victories as if they were his own. He was our confidante, our shoulder to cry on, our source of unwavering support. He was there to lift us up when we stumbled, to remind us that we too could conquer our fears, that we too could face adversity with courage and strength.
As we remember Jack today, let us not dwell on the pain of his loss, but rather on the love he shared, the courage he embodied, and the lessons he taught us. Let us honor his memory by living our lives with the same fearlessness, the same passion, and the same love that he showed us every day.
Jack, you were a force of nature, a true warrior, a friend like no other. Your spirit will live on in the stories you’ve written, the memories we’ve shared, and the lives you’ve touched. As we bid you farewell, know that your legacy of courage, strength, and love will continue to guide us and inspire us for years to come.
Rest in peace, dear Jack. You will forever be missed, but your spirit will forever live on in our hearts.
In conclusion, honoring your dear friend’s memory through a heartfelt eulogy is a powerful way to celebrate their life and the impact they had on you and others. By tapping into empathy and storytelling, you can craft a memorable tribute that brings comfort and healing to the entire family, including friends who share in the grief of losing someone special.
As you embark on this journey of writing a eulogy for a friend, remember the importance of fond memories, funny stories, and moments that capture the essence of your friend’s life. It may be challenging to find the right words, but by embracing your feelings and reflecting on your friendship, you can create a beautiful tribute that will resonate with everyone who knew and loved your dear friend.
We invite you to share your own eulogy experiences and seek professional help from MemoryCherish eulogy writers. Our team of compassionate experts is here to support you during this difficult time, providing guidance and assistance in crafting a meaningful eulogy that honors your friend’s legacy. Let us help you navigate this emotional process and create a lasting tribute that celebrates the love, laughter, and memories you shared with your cherished friend.
When writing a eulogy for your dear friend, focus on celebrating their life, sharing fond memories, and highlighting the unique qualities that made them special. Include stories that capture their personality, the moments you shared, and the impact they had on you and others. Remember to express your gratitude for the friendship you had and how much you will miss them.
To begin a eulogy for your best friend, start with a brief introduction that acknowledges the grief and sadness felt by their entire family and other friends. Share your connection to your friend and express your appreciation for having known them. You can also use this opportunity to mention a funny story or a memorable moment from your friend’s life that sets the tone for the rest of your tribute.
To write a meaningful short eulogy, focus on the most significant aspects of your friend’s life and your relationship with them. Choose a few key memories or stories that best represent their character and the bond you shared. Use descriptive language and an empathetic tone to convey your feelings and create an emotional connection with your audience. Remember to keep it concise and heartfelt, ensuring that your words honor your friend’s memory and provide comfort to their loved ones during this difficult time.
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Writing a eulogy: what to say at a funeral speech
Have you been asked to write a eulogy? And deliver it at the funeral? You might have questions about how to get it right. Here are some tips on writing a eulogy to help you give a heart-warming funeral speech.
What is a eulogy?
A eulogy is a speech that’s given at a funeral or memorial service. It’s a tribute to someone who’s passed away and a way to share memories of them. It’s an opportunity to look back at their life and talk about what made them unique. It’s also called a funeral speech.
A speech at a funeral is called a eulogy because when the word is broken down it actually means praise . The Greek roots of the word eulogy are eu which means good and logos which means speech. So when you are delivering a eulogy you’re praising the person who’s died, and speaking about the good they have done in their life.
Who reads the eulogy at a funeral?
Typically the eulogy at a funeral is given by someone who was close to the person who died. For example, children might give a eulogy at a parent’s funeral. But a eulogy can be delivered by family or friends of the person who passed away. If those closest to the person think reading the eulogy will be too much for them the celebrant (the person leading the service) can read it for them instead.
How to write a eulogy
Knowing how to write a eulogy won’t necessarily come naturally. It may feel like a big responsibility. But remember that it doesn’t have to be perfect, or formal if that doesn’t feel right. When you’re planning what to put in a eulogy keep in mind that it doesn’t have to follow a set structure or have a sad tone. You can adapt it to reflect the personality of the person who passed away and add a little humour if you think it’s appropriate.
Below is a short video on how to write a eulogy. It’ll give you some ideas about how to write a funeral speech that feels right.
Writing a eulogy step by step
If you’re writing a eulogy for a loved one here’s one way of approaching it. It’ll help you take it step by step to make things a little easier.
It’s a good idea to think about the eulogy in different sections (start, middle and ending) and then focus on writing each one in turn. You could write one section a day if you’re finding it difficult to sit down and write the whole eulogy at once. Before you start writing anything at all, you might like to chat to other friends and family members to hear their memories too. There might be specific things they’d like you to mention in the funeral speech.
How to start a eulogy
How do you start off a eulogy? It can feel like the hardest part. One easy way to begin is with a story about the person who’s died. You could talk about how you met them or share a story that shows the kind of person they were. To find some inspiration, try writing down some of your favourite stories about them. They can be touching, funny, emotional or inspiring.
Here are a few things you could think about to get started:
- The first time I met them…
- The thing everyone always said about them…
- The last time I saw them they said…
- The thing I will always remember about them…
What to say in a eulogy
Keeping to a basic eulogy structure will make it easier for you to say, and easier for people to follow. Try to have 3-5 main points, then give yourself 1-2 minutes to say each point.
Things you could include in your eulogy:
- Stories that show the personality and best qualities of the person
- Share the person’s favourite poem or song lyrics
- Share something that the person said, and that you will always remember
- Talk about their favourite interests or hobbies
- Celebrate the biggest achievements in their life
Rather than simply writing a funeral speech that tells the person’s life in order, consider basing the eulogy around the stories and moments that stand out.
How to end a eulogy
It’s best to end your funeral speech with something memorable and meaningful. You could end with an uplifting quote from the person who has died, or you could finish with a final story. You could even end with a sentence about what you think the person would say to everyone if they were still here. Alternatively, you could finish with a poem or song.
What makes a good eulogy?
Ultimately it doesn’t matter which stories or quotes you choose to put in the eulogy. And it doesn’t matter if you choose to keep things formal or go with a lighter tone. As long as your funeral speech is respectful and celebrates the person who passed away everyone else in the room will be grateful for it. If you’re still not sure where to start and need more eulogy ideas our hub of poems, songs and readings might help.
How long should a eulogy be?
Eulogies are usually quite short. Try to write a speech that lasts between 5 and 10 minutes, as a guide. But it’s important to think about how long you feel comfortable speaking for. If you only want to speak for a couple of minutes, that’s fine too.
Tips for speaking at a funeral
Practising how to deliver a eulogy is important too. It’ll help you feel more confident about speaking at the funeral and give you the time you need to fully prepare.
- Practise the funeral speech as much as you can. Ask someone to listen to you read through the eulogy and give you advice about where you need to slow down or speak more clearly.
- Use something to help you remember your words. You may prefer to have your funeral speech written down word-for-word. Others prefer short prompts or cue cards.
- Don’t worry about faltering. Nobody expects you to get through a eulogy without crying. You may stumble over sentences, you may become upset. No need to apologise – just take a deep breath and move on when you can.
- Bring a copy of your funeral speech written out in full. Even if you don’t plan to use it. That way, if you don’t feel you can deliver the speech on the day, you can ask someone else to read it for you.
What if you can’t deliver the eulogy?
If you can’t face delivering a eulogy at the funeral, that’s perfectly OK. You can ask a friend or the person leading the funeral to read your speech for you. They can also help you to write it, if you’re finding that difficult too. Hopefully our eulogy ideas have helped you understand how to write a funeral speech. You’ll find more tips and advice about planning or going to a funeral in our advice hub.
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How to give a good funeral speech: Writing a eulogy
Writing a eulogy is a traditional way to say goodbye when a loved one dies. Also known as a funeral speech, a eulogy is given at a funeral or memorial service by someone who was close to the deceased to commemorate their life. This could be a child, best friend, mother or father.
There are no rules to what you can and can’t say in a funeral speech. A eulogy is unique to the person it’s written about, but writing one can leave those grieving feeling lost for words. We have some advice on how to make writing a funeral speech feel less daunting for those who want to remember and honour their loved one’s life.
Decide on the tone of your funeral speech
Traditional eulogies are personal, meaningful and heartfelt. They vary in tone, but they tend to be conversational to ensure that everyone attending the funeral or memorial service can understand and relate to the words being said.
Whether you choose to adopt an uplifting tone with a bit of light humour or prefer to keep the eulogy sombre and serious is entirely up to you. It also depends on the relationship you shared with the deceased.
When writing your eulogy, remember to keep in mind your audience. The last thing you’d want to do is offend or upset the mourners attending the funeral with an unsuitable tone.
Ask family and friends for their memories
Before you sit down to write your eulogy, ask family and friends of the deceased for their recollections. This will bring comfort to them during the funeral and may jog some memories they had long forgotten about, too. Brainstorming with loved ones will also give you an idea of which memories to focus on throughout your speech.
What to include in a eulogy
Perhaps one of the hardest things about writing a funeral speech is knowing what to include about your loved one’s life. While this will vary from person to person depending on their history, it’s traditional to focus on their achievements alongside a brief timeline of their life. To help get you started, you might like to talk about:
- Where the deceased was born
- The names of their parents and siblings
- Nicknames and a brief background behind them
- An overview of their childhood, including schools attended
- Academic qualifications and achievements
- Details of military service
- Marriages, divorces, children and grandchildren
- Hobbies and interests
- Interesting stories
- Detail about their personality and preferences
Before writing the main bulk of the eulogy, remember to introduce yourself. Not all mourners at the funeral will know who you are, so offer a couple of lines of context about who the deceased was to you. This will help provide background for the rest of the eulogy.
Thank people for attending
To help soothe your nerves and ease your way into the eulogy, thank everyone for taking the time out of their day to come to the funeral service. You can also use this section to express your heartfelt condolences before you start reading the rest of the eulogy. This may be the hardest part of the funeral speech, so remember to bring tissues to the front of the room with you in case you need them.
Share memories of the deceased
Many people like to dedicate the main bulk of their eulogy to sharing fond memories of the deceased. You can make your speech as personal as you’d like it to be, but focusing on stories about the deceased and the qualities that made them special is a fitting way to say goodbye. Funerals don’t have to be sombre – they can be a celebration of life, so try to maintain a positive tone throughout this section to help lift the spirits of those in attendance.
Close the eulogy with comforting words
When closing the eulogy, say your final goodbye and finish by offering some words of comfort to the other mourners. You may want to end with your loved one’s favourite poem, quote or saying. Then, conclude your speech with a final goodbye.
Keep your speech short and sweet
Try to keep your eulogy around 3-5 minutes long. This is the perfect length to keep the audience’s attention while allowing enough time to delve into detail about the deceased’s life. Speak to the person organising the funeral about how long you have and time yourself to ensure you stick to the time limit.
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When a loved one passes away, we want to pay tribute to their life in a meaningful way. For loved ones, honoring cherished memories and accomplishments is an important part of the grieving process. This step helps commemorate their legacy in a way that feels true to their memory and the values they held. Writing a eulogy is a beautiful way to share these pivotal moments with the people that loved the departed.
What is a eulogy?
A eulogy is a remembrance speech that family members, close friends, or colleagues give during a funeral or memorial service. Sometimes just one person gives a eulogy at the memorial, and other times multiple people are chosen to share their memories and stories. With families and friends often traveling for a memorial service, eulogies serve as an opportunity for much-needed reflection as everyone gathers to honor a loved one’s passing.
Writing a eulogy is a challenging task after losing someone dear to you. You’ll have to gather stories and memories to share in front of a room full of people. Remember that what makes eulogies beautiful is their opportunity to bring comfort to those family and friends who share your grief while keeping the legacy of your loved one alive .
Don’t feel daunted; anyone can write a great eulogy. The key is to write something genuine that comes from the heart. While there are no rules for writing a eulogy, we’ve put together a step-by-step guide to help you create a sincere eulogy about your loved one.
How long should a eulogy be?
The deep love and loss you hold for someone who has passed can feel impossible to fit into a eulogy. Most eulogies are 5–10 minutes long, and it’s a challenge to fit someone’s whole life story into that amount of time. Look at it as a speech meant to capture the essence of their character and their values, honoring what they contributed to this world. The best place to start is deciding what stories and memories you’d like to include.
Below we’ve included a few steps for how you can write a meaningful eulogy.
What should I include in a eulogy?
Every eulogy should be unique, but these topics will help you draw inspiration:
- A brief overview of their life, including key milestones
- Your favorite memories with them, including a specific anecdote or two
- Details about their relationships with close family and friends
- Any significant accomplishments related to career, interests, or hobbies
- Poems, stories, or songs written by the departed
- Favorite words by authors or poets they admired
How to write a meaningful eulogy for a loved one
There is no right or wrong way to write a eulogy. If you’ve been chosen to deliver one, you were likely picked because of your meaningful connection to the departed and your beautiful storytelling abilities. Have confidence in yourself throughout this process — and if you begin to feel nervous, rely on the memories you have with your loved one to guide you.
1. Gather memories
First, create a timeline of some of their most significant life moments — whether getting married, having children, details of their noteworthy career, a lifetime of travel, or their involvement and dedication to their community. Seeing a timeline of their most important life moments on paper will help you identify what stands out as worth highlighting in your eulogy.
- Read old letters, emails, and text messages
- Revisit memorabilia
- Return to special places that hold memories
- Watch family videos and look through old photos
Try writing down all the words you would use to describe them and their personality
You may decide to include some of these descriptors in your eulogy. Taking the time to write down what you cherished about their character and your life together will bring back specific memories about them.
Family members and close friends are another source of ideas. Ask them about their favorite memories, insights into their relationship with the deceased, or places and times of the year that will always remind them of your loved one.
Ask friends and family these questions for inspiration:
- What were some of their favorite experiences with them?
- Were there specific personality traits that stick out to you?
- Did they have a mantra, song lyric, or quote that they loved?
- What heartwarming stories capture the essence of them?
Gathering ideas from different sources will help you identify a common thread or theme to tie the pieces of your eulogy together.
2. Write a meaningful eulogy
Eulogies are typically between 5–10 minutes spoken, or about 750–1,000 words written. When you sit down to write your first draft, write as you talk, and let the words come naturally. The most important part is to focus on how and why they were important to you; eulogies don’t need to be polished and perfect.
It can be helpful to step away from a first draft and revisit with a fresh pair of eyes. Share your first draft with friends or family members for their input. During your editing process, remember the focal point of your eulogy — whether that be their adventurous spirit or their gift as a good listener — and make sure your anecdotes and highlights help bring those traits to life.
Writing a meaningful eulogy for someone dear to you can be an extremely emotional process, but also a beautiful and cathartic one. It’s a chance to reflect on treasured memories from over the years and keep those memories alive even after your loved one is gone.
3. Practice with friends and family
Once you’ve written a eulogy that you’re proud of, practice it in front of friends or family. Eventually, you will need to speak the words you’ve written so it’s best to practice before the day of the memorial service. Have one of the observers time your speech so you know roughly how long it will take. Oftentimes you will speak faster than you expected so make sure you take time to breathe and slow down.
After you’ve practiced, ask your loved ones pointed questions about the areas you think may need work. This can sound like:
- Did I read too fast?
- Was the section about her mom confusing?
- Is there anything you’d add?
- Did this do the departed’s life justice?
Make sure you read the eulogy to someone who will give you constructive feedback so you know where to refine and make edits.
4. Edit and repeat
After practicing with friends and family, make any necessary edits to your eulogy. Sometimes you’ll find that your writing doesn’t sound the way you thought it would when you say it out loud, so it’s helpful to edit after reading it aloud. Make edits to the areas you were given feedback on and repeat the peer review process until you feel it’s ready for the memorial.
The day of the memorial service
The day of the memorial service can be difficult for many reasons. Saying goodbye to a loved one is hard enough, but reading a speech in front of people can also cause stress. It’s important to remember that you’ve been chosen because you’re the best person to represent their life.
When speaking, make sure you take time to pause and catch your breath. It’s common to speak too quickly when we’re nervous, but pausing and breathing will likely be perceived as natural to the audience. Take time between sentences and paragraphs so people can reflect on what you’ve said before rushing to the next point.
Don’t let fear overcome the love you shared with the departed. After working hard on your eulogy, you are ready to read it aloud.
Below we’ve written a few eulogy examples for you to draw inspiration from.
Eulogy for a partner
One of my favorite things about my wife was the way she loved birds. Most of us pay no attention to these small creatures, but she observed every wing flutter that went past her. She could stand in a field for hours watching their flight patterns and listening for their calls. At first, I wanted to quicken her pace, growing tired of all the moments we wasted staring at the sky.
As we grew older together, I understood her need for this solitary reprieve from society. I began wanting to follow her out into those fields to see the joy flicker in her eyes. What I would do to spend one more moment in a field with her — holding her bird book or listening to her attempt bird noises to attract them our way.
I will never see birds the same way again. They will always be my wife. Soaring above the world’s problems. Tuning in to tune out. I hope wherever she is now gives her that same peace.
Eulogy for a parent
Since I was a little girl I’ve emulated my mother. From wearing her high heels to creating fake lesson plans so I could teach my brother in my pseudo classroom in the kitchen. As I grew older my affection for her grew, only taking a brief pause during the angst of middle and high school.
After college, I began to find comfort in the same hobbies she tried to impart to me as a child. Things I used to hate like walking in the woods, snowshoeing on snow-filled bogs, and canoeing local rivers became my new happy place.
Now that she’s gone, I will return to those places that gave us both comfort. Always knowing that she’s there — watching over me and telling me to get back before dark.
Eulogy for a grandparent
Everyone here knows that my grandmother was an avid reader. When you walked into her home the floors and countertops were always filled with her latest novel or autobiography. I always wanted to impress her with a great book, but she knew what she liked and I rarely got it right.
One of my favorite memories was when I gifted her one of my own favorite books, The Overstory by Richard Powers. I was so nervous that she wouldn’t like it, but to my surprise she loved it and it became one of her staples — lining the countertops with her other favorites.
I will always think of my grandmother when I open a book these days. In all of her favorites, she underlined the words that meant something to her. Tracing my fingers over those very lines brings me closer to her even when she’s gone.
Eulogy for a sibling
When my parents first told me I’d be getting a baby brother I was less than thrilled. In fact, I believe my response was “You’re ruining my life!” As we got older my brother became my best friend, my backpacking buddy, and even my roommate a time or two.
Now I’m only left with our memories. Like the memory of him breaking his foot when we were jumping on our parent’s bed and our trips around Europe once we got older. I also remember the bad memories, like when he forgot me in Amsterdam. Only something someone as forgetful as him would do.
My brother was my favorite person in the world. Saying goodbye to him was never the way things were meant to be, but here we are — and for him, we will go on.
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Touching Eulogy Examples for a Dear Friend
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You can find examples of a touching eulogy that says how dear your friend is to you. With a few easy tips and examples, you can either revise an existing eulogy or write your own.
How to Choose a Touching Eulogy for a Dear Friend
The criteria for choosing the right eulogy for your dear friend depends on the sentiments you wish to express. Consider what your friend meant to you and write down the various sentiments that best describe your friendship. Choose one sentiment and then use it to build your eulogy; these are printable using Adobe and can be edited as needed. The examples are also included at the end of this article.
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Long Eulogy for a Friend
If you're the main speaker, your eulogy will naturally be longer and cover more of your friend's life.
Short Eulogy for a Friend
When several people have been asked to speak, you will want to keep your friend's eulogy on the shorter side to allow everyone a time to speak.
How to Write a Eulogy for a Friend
Once you know the sentiment you wish to express, it's time to start writing your eulogy . You can divide the eulogy into sections so it's easier to write.
- Welcome and introduction - The first part of your eulogy is the welcome and introduction. Thank those for coming to celebrate the life of your friend. Follow this with a brief introduction about your relationship with the deceased before going into more eulogy information .
- Share a few memories of your friend - Choose moments everyone can relate to and illustrate the sentiment you choose as the centerpiece of your tribute to your friend. This might be a story about spending summer vacation together at the beach or hiking in the state park.
- Illustrate your friendship with a story - Reveal your friend's personality and your friendship. Don't make these long, detailed stories, just hit the high points. Use a few snippets that are touching and warm.
- Mention deceased's family - Acknowledge family members; if possible, include them in the stories or select one of your friend's endearing qualities and relate a story demonstrating that quality that includes their family.
- Uplifting conclusion - You want to conclude your eulogy with something that is spiritually and emotionally uplifting, yet relative to your friend and your friendship.
Eulogy for a Best Friend Poem
You may decide that a poem is the best approach for a eulogy for a best friend. Sometimes, a poem can express your sentiments better than you. It may be that your friend had a favorite poem and its significance is perfect for a eulogy.
Eulogy for a Friend Quotes
When you write a eulogy for a dear friend, you may decide to include a quote or two . The quotes should express your thoughts and feelings about your friend. It may be that your friend had a favorite quote or used a quoted as a life mantra, so including it in your eulogy would be very appropriate.
Long Example for a Friend
You might find an example of a touching eulogy for a dead friend helpful. At the very least, you may be inspired and gain a better understanding of what you wish to include in your eulogy. Long version of dear friend eulogy:
"First, I'd like to thank everyone for being here to help Josie's family and friends celebrate her life. I met Josie on a school field trip to the state aquarium. At the time, we attended different schools, but our two groups ended up on the same tour.
"I immediately liked Josie's sense of humor. The tour guide named all the species and told a little about each one. When the tour guide asked if anyone in the group knew the name of the shark swimming in the tank behind him, Josie raised her hand and replied, 'Maneater.'
"We kept in touch after the field trip and a year later Josie's dad, Frank, took a job here in town and Josie and I became inseparable. It was a dream come true that we were able to see each other every day.
"We went on each other's family vacations. We shared everything from our first boy crushes to our first dates. We texted each other all the time, sent selfies and made plans about our future lives. Those plans won't come to pass now. She was taken from us by a drunk driver. In that one moment, her life ended. Everything we planned vanished.
"But my memories remain. I still laugh whenever I think about us trying to sneak back into her bedroom one night while on vacation. We didn't realize the rental property had an automated sprinkler system. I can still hear her squealing and giggling as we tried to dodge the sprinklers, only to be blinded by floodlights triggered by a motion detector.
"Her parents, Frank and Maude, weren't giggling when they opened the front door holding towels. They dried us off and fixed us a midnight snack and then promptly grounded both of us for a week.
"I shall always miss my dear friend. She made me laugh, and she was always there to help me figure things out, listen to me when I was upset, and cheer me up when I was down.
"Josie was fearless and forever curious about - everything. Her favorite quote was from an ancient history class we took together a few years ago. The ancient Greek philosopher Epictetus said, "There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will." Josie lived this quote and I'll try to live it. For certainly, her no longer being here is something well beyond the power of our will."
Short Eulogy Example for a Friend
Sometimes a short eulogy for a friend is an ideal choice. You want to consider the funeral venue and frame your eulogy according to the setting and those in attendance. For example, if your friend was a musician, you may want to have a shorter eulogy so you can play your friend's favorite song . Short eulogy written for a fellow musician:
"Thank you all for being here today to give John a proper send off for a fellow musician. I met John about six years ago when we were both playing gigs in Memphis. We connected that first set and went on to form our little jazz band, ending up playing here in New Orleans. John wasn't a formal guy and would never want me eulogizing him. He was humble and the only thing he valued almost as much as his family and friends was his music. John once told me, he could give up beer, pizza and chocolate peanuts - and we all know how much he loved those foods - but the one thing he couldn't live without was music. So, John this song is for you, brother, with all my heart, you are the one thing in life I never thought I'd have to give up!"
Tribute to a Friend at a Funeral
When you give a touch eulogy for a dear friend, you want it to convey your emotions about your friend. You want the eulogy to serve as an example of who your friend was and how he/she touched your life and the lives of others.
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Funeral Speech In English: Eulogy to deliver on Death of a Close one
Funeral Speech In English : The king of speeches that are delivered on the occasion of a Funeral is known as a Eulogy. It is up to the speaker if they go for a Eulogy, an Elegy or a Eulogy comprising of an Elegy. Funerals are extremely sad and depressing occasions. Genuinely, even to consider that one has to give a speech at a Funeral is scary. Since it comes with loads of responsibility. One can not simply go up and speak their heart out. It can be emotionally upsetting and triggering. A perfect Funeral Speech has to be one where there is hope blended with tribute.
While one has to celebrate and commemorate the person who has just passed away, one also needs to pay attention to those who are grieving a provide them with unmatchable hope and relief. Eulogies have to be loaded with condolences, a tinge of sadness, and hope for the future.
Here in the subsequent article, there is an extensive guide to speeches that you can deliver at Funerals, quotes to add to the speech, elegies to attach with it, and an exemplary speech. Read thoroughly and get a simplified analysis of how your speech should sound and what you need to portray while delivering one.
Funeral Speech In English
Delivering a speech at a funeral can be complicated. One might be dubitable about what they could speak and how to do so. This problem can be solved very easily if you follow the correct format of the speech. It is important to understand why you have to deliver the speech, and what might the listeners wish to hear in the moment of sadness. Speaker needs to comprehend the mood of the environment and understand the necessity of the hour. Accordingly, the speech needs to be delivered. The English Language offers a perfect format to write a eulogy. It will be very convenient for the speaker if they stick to the particular format and prepare the draft accordingly. Adding quotes, elegies, sayings, and such literary texts would make the speech much more emotional as it will add the required emotional connection and quotient.
Funeral Speech In English: Points to Understand
The following points must be very profoundly observed while preparing a Eulogy or Funeral Speech In English:
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- The Speaker must make sure that the speech is not too long as the occasion is dominated by sadness and excessive speaking or listening might not be what someone would want at a funeral.
- Funeral Speech In English must be in a simplified language and has to be genuine.
- Use words that are extremely decent and avoid anything offensive.
- Discuss the life and contribution of the person who has recently passed away.
- Speak about the changes and the sadness that followed post the departure of the deceased.
- End the speech with positivity, a ray of hope, and how the audience can cope with the unending pain and sadness.
Quotes to add in a Eulogy
Quotes can be a very good option. If you are willing to give your speech some literary fluence or maybe make them poetic, you can choose to put quotes into it. It will help make the speech much more interesting and bind the listeners. They shall also feel hopeful when they hear something that has been established as a saying. The following quotes have been famously mentioned by various personalities about death and grief. You can choose the one that suits your speech and add them to it, accordingly:
- Death ends a life, not a relationship. ~ Mitch Albom
- Death inevitably comes to each of us. Whether it is a time of inner dignity and honour or a pitiful demise is completely reliant on how we live our lives right now, today. In that sense, the “moment of death” truly exists in the present.
- It is a curious thing, the death of a loved one. We all know that our time in this world is limited and that eventually all of us will end up underneath some sheet, never to wake up. And yet it is always a surprise when it happens to someone we know. It is like walking up the stairs to your bedroom in the dark, and thinking there is one more stair than there is. Your foot falls down, through the air, and there is a sickly moment of dark surprise as you try and readjust the way you thought of things. ~ Lemony Snicket
- Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings. ~ Anais Nin
- The steps of a man are established by the Lord when he delights in his way. ~ Psalm 37:23
- Grief fills the room up of my absent child, Lies in his bed, walks up and down with me, Puts on his pretty looks, repeats his words, Remembers me of all his gracious parts, Stuffs out his vacant garments with his form. ~ William Shakespeare
- It is said that your life flashes before your eyes just before you die. That is true, it’s called Life. ~ Terry Pratchett
- When someone you love dies, and you’re not expecting it, you don’t lose her all at once; you lose her in pieces over a long time—the way the mail stops coming, and her scent fades from the pillows and even from the clothes in her closet and drawers. Gradually, you accumulate the parts of her that are gone. Just when the day comes—when there’s a particular missing part that overwhelms you with the feeling that she’s gone, forever—there comes another day, and another specifically missing part. ~ John Irving
- Only a person who has lived totally can die gracefully. ~ Sadhguru
- Her absence is like the sky, spread over everything. ~ C.S. Lewis
Elegy to add to your Eulogy
Elegy is a poem that celebrates or reminisces about someone who has died. It is particularly very dark in nature. It creates an environment of sadness and it is also very articulative for anyone who is grieving from the pain of a dead friend or relative. It is sometimes difficult to give words to your feelings. Instead, in such moments of sadness, one might prefer to simply depend on elegies in order to complete their Funeral Speech. Elegy can occupy a part of your speech or may entirely dominate it. It is up to the speaker. Some people are very active in terms of literature and have a flair for writing poems. They can freely add their original poetry to the speech. However, there are some who cannot compose one. Thus, here are some very famous Elegies that you can add to your Funeral Speech In English. It will not only reduce the burden to write while being emotionally triggered but also will be more relatable and easier to connect with.
- In Memoriam A.H.H. by Alfred Lord Tennyson
- Dirge Without Music by Edna St. Vincent Millay
- O Captain! My Captain! by Walt Whitman
- When Lilacs Last in the Dooryard Bloom’d by Walt Whitman
- In Memory of W.B. Yeats by W.H. Auden
- Lycidas by John Milton
- Elegy 5 by Ovid
- Adonais: An Elegy on the Death of John Keats by Percy Bysshe Shelley
- Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard by Thomas Gray
- Sonnet On the Death of Richard West by Thomas Gray
The Eulogy or a Funeral Speech for a Friend
Good Morning to all present here. This is a sad occasion to even speak on. I am extremely devastated as the person we all admired collectively, and prayed for, has left us. _____________ (Name of the deceased) has left for the heavenly abode and I am very sure that wherever he is right now, he must be in peace. While he has departed and joined the afterlife, we all stand here trying to cope with the void. Honestly, this is very tough and hard. To stop thinking about his very innocent face, arms always longing for humanity, heart always open to love, incredible mind, and most importantly, his sheer simplicity in things that he did. It was his candour that made him the exceptional person he was.
Whenever _________ (Name of the Deceased) and I used to it and have a conversation, I found myself in complete awe of his knowledge. He was always educated on whatever one could possibly think of. Such was his determination to make the world a better place, that he did not stop for a while and always continued to strive for his aim and the community.
To be such a kind of person, you have to be an absolute legend at heart and my friend truly was. I don’t understand with whom I will share my profound discussions of sports or call in an hour of need. He was always there to free me. And I would not be bragging if I would say that he happened to be there for all of us. He has left this world in a much better frame than he received. He made sure that his morals, values, and legacy lives on in us with the influence his generosity imparted to us. I have changed incredibly as a human ever since I was in terms with ________ (Name of the Deceased). Today, we all will not have someone who would love us despite all the deteriorating situations, and the enmity of the world. There is a lot that had to be said and a lot that was to be shared but it all ends here. Except, for the love that we all hold for him. He might be resting peacefully in the clouds where the angels deserve him, but we are all here still reminiscing what we shared and preserving our love for him. You are not dead, my friend. Rather, you are alive in us all.
If I would intend to end this speech, I might not be ever able to do that. There is so much about him and his importance in our lives that cannot be articulated in a few minutes. But, I would probably stop speaking and let all my love for _________ (Name of the Deceased) thrive because I have not lost him and I never will. Just as Helen Keller said, “What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us”, I too believe that he is a part of me and he still lives on!